Kollam Mathews(KM for short) myself is a B.com graduate, with 35 years of experience in IT, Guru in Martial-arts, a Yogacharya. Despite my asthmatic complaints in childhood, occured through the negligence of an Allopath doctor who took BCG vaccine a second time, and my lung was affected and I got Hospitalised at Sector-9 in Bhilai, MP. I was bed-ridded for 3 years and went through a lot of suffering. Later I overcame this through my endurance, courage , exercise and perseverance and became the Grand-Master of Kalaripayat(Martial-arts of Kerala), and trained elite and exceptional students. While in my school days, I used to say, "I never want to become an INSTRUCTOR", as I found that teachers had to teach the same boring syllabus of subjects again and again.
please don't stop reading...and read until the end. I got married and had 2 children a boy and a girl. But with all these abilities I couldn't market my talents properly and life was miserable and I couldn't make both ends meet. Due to my non-greedy attitude, I didn't make money and my wife and family was not happy, and my married life was a failure, as my wife never loved me. The love I imparted to her was kind of one-way traffic, and never reciprocated. After 23 years of failed married life I, realized after training my son and daughter for 16 years, that they didn't have the passion to pursue the career of their father in martial-arts, or had any thirst for the knowledge I possessed. I understood the sad situation that they were not going to be a helping hand in expanding my business or, encourage me or nor could be my successor, as they were addicted to Mobile games in their teenage for 4 years continuously. my children never wanted to learn anything from their Dad, who was rich in knowledge. my wife spoke negatively to her children, about my career, and would say, "Never become like your father or pursue my career. I didn't earn a penny or have savings to build a House or teach my children". Whatever the person did for my family, during the past 23 years were unaccounted for by my wife and children and she would mock me every time saying that I was sitting idle and eating free from my wife's earning.
I was depressed and grieved in heart. I even tried to file legally for a divorce with the help of a Lawyer, and awaited for years, and life dragged on without a meaning. I felt lonely, as I never got assistance from my children to train the students, or never got a word of appreciation. I couldn't market my knowledge properly or never could become a Rich man, which was my gravest mistake. I was a billionair compared to the knowledge I possessed, but still a poor humble man, lonely and depressed. I started neglecting my health, not doing fitness training, gaining body weight and the old disease of Asthma, once again started creeping in...
To add to my distress, my Younger Brother came from Dubai and I acquired the part of family home. and I had 1/3rd(i.e,5 cents) of inheritance of the 15cent of my parents property, in the center of kollam city. My Dad expired in 1988 and Mom expired in 2018. But due to the harsh behaviour of my brother, who had Liquor addiction, and who used bad words every time, it was difficult to live with him like a joint family. My bro destroyed all the rare 100 species of Herbal plants, collected from various parts of south India with lot of pain during the past 35 years, cut-off cctv camera wires, destroyed my exercise equipments, destroyed the light post lamps in the court-yard which glowed at night, cut-off the calling-bell wires, and did lot of damages which was unbearable n miserable. All the dreams I had build-up in past 30 years had been shattered in a short span of 1 month by my Younger brother. I abandoned the training of Kalari, yoga in the shed I built for Rs.65000, where he build his own Table-tennis or Meeting Hall, and I also abandoned the tiled cottage for which I spend Rs.15,000 for roof maintenance and Rs.7500 for the Sanitary plumbing was all a waste. All that I had earned and that was spent for my dream had been destroyed. I tried to complain in the Police, but that was also of no use. I couldn't file a case or sue him in a court of law, as I was bankrupt and poor to fight monetarily to make good the loss incurred to me by my brother.
So I was forced to moved with my family to a rental house, the rent of which was paid by her, since she had a job. To add to my dismay, my wife who had an aversion for sex, hated me, mocked and whenever I tried to justify my part a quarrel would arise and my daughter would take her side and say, "why are you staying at my Mom's home to quarrel with her. She is paying the House Rent. Mom...why don't you send him away from this house". It was like "From frying pan in to the fire". Since I tried to correct or polish my children's character from childhood, and scolded them to make them right... they became my enemy and their mother supported to all their mistakes done, giving love and affection and she became the children's pet or sweet heart. Please keep on reading...and don't stop.
But due to my prayers and godliness, one of my school day colleague of 10th class, who was settled at US, helped me by sending Rs.12,000 as Loan to give advance for setting up my offfice for training Kalari, Yoga, computer, etc. So I paid the advance of my office and 2 months rent. One day my wife and children had great quarrel with me as I became a burden for them and drove me away, and I started sleeping in my rented office at Kadavoor, Kollam ,and ate food from Hotels. I struggled to make both ends meet, with the trifle amount I received, for training computer, kalari or yoga, etc when there was students. Every day was a miracle in my life and some how I survived, I knew my health was going down at the age of 55. I changed my office from one place to other with some furnitures inherited from my parents. I shifted my office to 7 places and the Kadavoor office was the last one.
But it was my destiny or the dint of courage in me which made me aquire or Master many arts like Kalaripayat, Yoga, Swimming coach, water floating trainer, police, navy, army, commando fitness trainer, a traditional healer in Ayurveda and siddha. I had great knowledge of Herbal plants(Herbalist) and developed a Herbopedia software of 800 herbs of India, and people who couldn't find cure to many diseases, reached me as a last resort from many medical colleges in Tamilnadu, Karnataka and Kerala having chronic nervous disorders, cancer,body injuries occuring in falls, vehicle accidents, etc. I had the hobbies of painting (water color and oil painting) sceneries or portraits, and was a poet, a story writer, spoken English and Hindi teacher, short film director, martial-arts cd producer, a small actor in TV serials, Film stunt director, IT professional (software developer who developed Ayurveda Siddha medical software, Medical diagnosis software, Face reading software in English n Malayalam and is the web designer of my own site Https://www.balikalari.in). I also knew the ancient Secret of Making KAYAKALPA medicines for Longevity, and the list was unending....I could perform 40 or more Yogasanas in deep water and has a WORLD-RECORD in the 'Record setter of world records'. I can sit in padmasana with my hands tied together, in deep water. I can shoot arrows with a bow in deep water, or fire a pistol in deep water, or eat fruits, or drink soft drinks in deep water. Nothing was impossible for me, as I could keep my neck and head out of water in deep area, even if my hands were tied-up with a string. I received the Siddhis(spiritual powers) directly by the blessings of God, by hearing the divine words of angels from above. I have written a book named JALA-VEDA to impart my knowledge to water-floaters. I had made quite a collection of book which became a small library with many copies of rare mysterious or spiritual books which was plundered by the Mugals, portegues, Dutch, British, who came to India. I now had the translated version collected which was in English which I aquired from the world libraries. I have also written 13 BOOKS and produced n DIRECTED 10 or more Vcds-dvds on Kalaripayat martial-arts. I had acquired tonnes of knowledge and wisdom from my Gurus.
But I had a great DREAM to build a SPIRITUAL ASHRAM where myself was the GURU or Head, who could IMPART SPIRITUAL WISDOM IN YOGIC STUDIES like water floating and other mysterious sciences of longevity and so on. For this I needed at least 20 cents of land of my own, which at the moment I didn't have, and for a small starting of a center in my own name, in some village area near a lake in the midst of nature, where everyone who came, could find peace of mind. I might feel safe with calmensss and mental peace there, from where no one could drive me away and I would have the freedom to develop my talents and no one would question it. I dreamt to have a KALAARIPAYAT / YOGA/ TRADITIONAL TREATMENT TRAINING SCHOOL with herbal medicine manufacturing unit, Massage center, breading few cattles, doing some agriculture land for growing paddy, a herbal garden, and at least 10 assistants with accountants, gardener, cattle caretaker, therapist, Computer assistants, trainers to teach yoga, martial-arts, swimming, water-floating, fitness training, helpers to manufacture medicines, etc. I dreamt very big, where I could treat at least few poor people, or old-aged with chronic diseases by giving them some free medicines. I dreamt to have few rooms to accomodate any students, in-patients and having enough number of toilets for all. But unfortunately I never could fulfil my dreams or make it come true.
I also dreamt of some RICH LADY of any caste, creed or color from any part of the world who may be a widower, separated, or any lady Awaiting divorce preferably below 52 yrs, who could have similar taste as mine and help me by investing to buying a land or developing a Resort, in India or give a help to start a business abroad. The Lady must have a taste or flair for learning the martial-arts, Yoga and give a helping hand in my business, encouraging me. Such a lady shall be taught all knowledge for FREE, who could love n care me, provide food and sexual pleasures with love, who could understand me, and to who I could share all my secrets. She can be a lover, disciple or a life partner to serve me, who can stayed with me for rest of my life, enjoying it, or otherwise would take me with her to her native land, opening a Martial-arts yoga training branch abroad, signing up an agreement or deed, and be a helping hand in all my activities, and SHARE PROFITS EUALLY TOGETHER, and learn all the vast ocean of knowlege along with me for FREE. For all this to come TRUE, with a training center, which is nothing less than a UNIVERSITY, with IS0 certification and everything, a huge amount is needed as charity, donation or investment for the upcoming institution from kind-hearted ladies who satisfy above conditions. The blessings of many well-wishers, or an art loving rich lady who can be my life-partner can contact me in my Mobile Number or Email details given below, and live the rest of the life with happiness, peace and prosperity.
Another possibility is that any Rich man who would like to do business with my knowledge abroad in my native land, sharing the profits equally, by providing visa, comfortable stay, food, and invest in creating an Ashram for martial-art and spiritual subjects of Yoga, who can ofcourse provide a lady secretary who can be loving and be a helpful assistant, so that I shall not feel lonely due to lack of love and care. To such business man all my(Gurus) knowledge and wisdom shall be my investment, who can manage and guide the center with the help of few assistants.This is also a business offer.
I never ran behind money, as I knew knowledge is money...and I always tried to acquire wisdom, by spending many lakhs from my earnings to learn from my Gurus and in buying lot of books in 5 different languages, in 35 years.
'Kollam Mathews' is the founder of 'Bali Kalari Siddha Marma Chikitsa Kendra, Iron-bridge, kollam', who taught Kalaripayat, Yoga and many things as a One-man-army till now, without assistance of anyone. Read until end.
So if any rich people, or any good kind-hearted person around the world is reading this article, just lend a helping hand to make me rise up and fulfill my dreams with your charity or donation. I want to transmit all the rare knowledge I acquired to such helping people and students world-wide, who can join for classes and help at the same time. Even the smallest or triflest help possible by anyone....can be send in my BANK ACCOUNT. By helping me, you are helping to keep these art and knowledge alive, so that it can be transferred to next generation. As you know the siddhars of India including Bhogar (Bo-yang in chinese), Agasthyar, Kalanginathar, Bodhidharma(Ta-Mo) and the Buddha all have passed on the rich wisdom to the chinese and now they are a leading country in the world. In the same way your country too will become rich in knowledge through this humble person, who has knowledge unimaginable. You are helping me to get settled, and stand steady in front of my kith and kins who ridiculed me for following this path of learning traditional Indian art n wisdom. If KM is able to stand-up and become independent, I would be able to show them that I own's an ASHRAM, and what I teaches is of great value to the world. I want to show my wife n children that I have achieved my dreams.
Any person can also help me by buying books, cds, or the Ayurveda-siddha Medical software developed by me, vcds-dvds of kalaripayat or buy few of my Autobiography books and distribute it to your friends, or buy kalari lock books on Kalaripayat with 175 different locking techniques or help in Marketing or publishing the books and learn from me and help me monetarily. God will surely bless you hundred or thousand fold of whatever help you do to me. Whatever you do...the blessings will come on you, as we are helping each other. You can buy products, or services or learn from me.
Bank details: Mathew.P.C, Union bank of India, A/c No. 046010011004203. IFSC code: UBIN0804606, Beach road,
chinnakkada, kollam, Kerala. Can Google pay the amount in +919847553600 or send amount by PayTm in +917994461146.
I have my kalari office on the address given below which may change in time as it is rented. You can decide whether all the knowledge I have, should die with me or I should die with my dreams unfulfilled. Many hands together can make miracles happen, promote these precious knowledge with me from becoming extinct for the next generations to come, and make my dreams come true. The 'stone' that was abandoned by all shall become the 'corner-stone' by God's grace, which will be fulfilled by many helping hands. Be a part of the 'Miracle' which is yet to come, and even if a single drop of tears swell out from your eyes, reading this, and feel some pity you can do the smallest charity you can be it $1,$5,$10 or more what you wish. God bless once again all brothers and sisters around the world who read this, and do their part of small help to promote the wisdom of the East and help me rise up.GBU.
Bali Kalari Sangham
Siddha Marma Chikitsa Gurukulam
Temple of Martial-arts
('Hill of Bali'...the Mighty Indian Monkey King)
Panayam, Perinad P.O, Kollam.
Gurukkal: Kollam MathewsWhatsapp Mobile No:0091-9847553600::
Other Mobile No.7994461146
Affliated to Nehru Yuva Kendra, Govt of India. No.NYK/4915/669/2016.
POLICE Permit issued under the Kerala Police Regulation of Physical Training Rules,